How to handle people who hates you ? Well you don't! Why you want to handle other people ? You need to know how to handle yourself. Because you can't force people to listen to you, so if that person wants to do something stupid such as hating people or trying to hurt people, leave them be. If you show any reaction, it means you're affected by what that person has done to you, which means they win. Do dont show any reaction, dont let them think that they get the best of you. Just ignore them-entitely. It may be hard but, slowly you can do this.